Elements of your Soul Compliment / Twin Flame

Aka. What makes us compatible with someone?

Have you ever thought of what exactly makes you compatible with someone? And if you knew the exact ingredients to a fully compatible relationship - how empowering and clarity bringing would that be?

Knowledge is power, and this one is the highest frequency information, so jump right in with a cuppa and let's break this down.

When we first meet someone that we are sexually attracted to and want to pursue a romantic relationship with, we literally feel it physically. We feel a physical attraction to them we want to physically touch them and be close to them. It's chemistry! But does that mean that we are physically compatible with them? Not necessarily.

Let me explain:

There are 4 attributes to being fully compatible with someone. This also goes for friendships, but we will focus on romantic love interests this time.

Sadly, most of us settle for 2 out of the 4 above mentioned attributes on average. Knowing where you are incompatible, however, can give you empowerment and clarity as to why you feel a certain way within this relationship. Why certain things work or don't work.

When you are compatible on all 4 attributes, it is widely called your Twin Flame. I don't particularly like that term simply because it has a very bad rep online. It is misunderstood and misguided. And majority of the information you can find online on Twin Flame is lower frequency, not the actual Source truth. If you've been around here a little while, you may have heard me talk about Source (God) and how using intuition, we access the Source truth, the highest frequency information available to us. But we can expand on this a little later.

So, what are the 4 attributes?

I like to call the 4/4 compatible partner a Soul Compliment. When you are in a relationship with your 4 out of 4 compatible Soul Compliment, it will feel like they are another part of you. Because they are. They are the opposite energy of you in the same soul fragment - Feminine to Masculine, literally - Yin to your Yang.

Here are the 4 attributes we have been talking about:

1. Physical compatibility,

2. Mental compatibility,

3. Emotional compatibility,

4. Spiritual compatibility.

Each of the 4 attributes provides a specific connection between you and your soul compliment. It connects you to every part of your being one attribute at a time.

How do I know which of the attributes my current (or love interest) partner and I are compatible on?

The best, quickest and easiest way to check this is with your intuition if you have trained it, or with your intuitive within your circle. If you don't have access to that, find an intuitive! :-) Otherwise, here are some of the ways you can check for yourself.

Let's break these down for you one by one:

1. Physical compatibility stretches way beyond sex and sexual attraction. It is your five physical senses, where you are compatible with someone in what you like to eat, how you like to eat, how adventurous (or not) you are with your food. What shows you like to watch on TV, do you both enjoy cinema or does one of you always falls asleep? Yes, this is a sign you may not be compatible physically. Other signs you are not compatible physically may look like one of you always walks ahead of the other, the walking pace being very different. You like very different music. You cook separate meals for food, and so on.

Having said this, if you are physically compatible, you will enjoy most of the same things, the same meal times, similar type of food, you will do physical activities together like work out together, or cycle, you will feel like you just click physically like a puzzle. And yes, sex is also going to feel better when you have a physical compatibility.

2. Mental compatibility is your potential to connect with each other mentally through the subjects you like, how long you can talk about something together with interest and even increasing intensity. It is your intellectual capacity to stimulate each other with the potential that is com patible. Now having said this, how do you know if you are not compatible mentally? The thing I notice the most in mentally incompatible couples is that one of the 2 in the couple feels like they are not smart / clever enough for the other. They feel somewhat inadequate when it comes to the IQ even though metrically the IQ's may look exactly the same. It's a sense one of the people in the couple gets that they don't quite understand the other or doesn't find their biggest passions even remotely interesting.

3. Emotional compatibility is expressed in being able to relate to each other emotionally. Have you ever felt like, when you're emotional and you go to your partner for emotional support they just don't have the capacity to understand you. Feels like they don't have the empathy for your situation. Without scientifically precise Intuitive who can give you a precise reading on this, this will be your tell tell sign that you and your partner do not have the compatibility emotionally. One person may often feel like the other 'doesn't love them enough' while their partner feels constantly 'nagged about how they don't show enough love, but they feel like they can't possibly show it any more than they do already'. This can feel extremely frustrating for a couple and very disheartening. The reason for this, is because one person's emotional capacity is an ocean, and the other's is a pool. And there is no way around it.

4. Spiritual compatibility boils down to the potential each person has to grow spiritually in this particular lifetime. I often have clients that 'feel like' they are spiritually compatible because they currently talk about and connect spiritually, but what happens is, when you are not spiritually compatible one of the people within the couple outgrows the other spiritually eventually, and their partner can no longer keep up and or understand them.

So what does this actually mean for you?

It means that feeling you’ve had—the one you can’t quite explain, where something just feels… off—isn’t in your head. It’s your awareness picking up on misalignment.

Because you can love someone, be attracted to them, even feel deeply connected in certain moments… and still not be fully compatible.

And most people stay there. And then they spend years trying to fix the parts that were never aligned to begin with.

They settle into 2 out of 4. The more spiritually progressed people tend to be in 3 out of 4 relationships. 4 out of 4 soul compliments are a lot more rare but not impossible, especially now that you are aware of this.

So here's the good news - now you can stop blaming yourself. Stop trying to make someone meet you in a place they simply can’t reach.

And you start making cleaner, more self-honouring decisions in love.

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